Why did this happen? of course everyone has different answers. But, it should be emphasized that fear to meet future in-laws will make you a bad relationship. Could be your partner are prejudiced, that you do not have the intention to continue the marriage. If you already intend to get serious, you would already know that will run into and through this process.
Nervousness is a natural thing, and tipperblogger will give you some tips on how to meet future in-laws:
- Time
Timing is everything. Choosing the wrong time will only make your plans and your partner mess. Consult with your partner, when the parents have free time, so that by itself, their mood was good too.
- Find out more about the
Find out "values" what applies in the partner's family. This will make it easier to blend in with his parents. Do not make a difference in your assessed value is not polite to them. Adjust yourself well.
- Place
Meeting place can also affect the success of the meeting. Avoid places that are too crowded and noisy that can make parents feel uncomfortable pair. Better to choose a comfortable place, like a family cafe with the music of jazz ballad or soft. Calm atmosphere will also make a happy heart.
- Right on time
Do not let yourself first impression is damaged just because it comes late. Better to come first in honor of the couple's parents.
- Present
Nothing wrong with a simple delivery to please parents couple. Discuss in advance with your partner, what is most appropriate gifts are given. It can show your attention to the partner's family.
- Appearance
Do not forget to prepare your appearance. Sexy is not recommended. Better to use a simple outfit, but still look elegant. Canal along the knee, or a blend shirt and jeans could be the right choice. Hairdo should also be considered. Choose a hairstyle a neat and tidy. Select a color theme make-up is soft and natural that the appearance did not seem excessive. Also avoid wearing too many accessories. Better to choose safe and simple appearance.
- Topics for discussion
Carefully choose the subject. Choose a topic that neutral cornering without any party (eg themed SARA). Do not forget to show your skills, for example, talk about achievements in the field of employment. This would be a plus right. But be careful, do not get until you actually seem proud and arrogant.
- Praise
Do not forget to praise. Look for excess parental partner, and express your admiration. Give a sincere compliment. False praise will only make you look and sound hypocritical.
Good luck!
Good luck!
Author : HENDI HARI SURYANTO
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